One on One

Our world is so distracting that most people go through life without ever gaining a sense of who they are and what they are about.  In such a world we are in constant search of meaning and purpose. 

This lack of meaning often lends itself to issues of low self esteem and a sense of  futility.  A big part of this negative spiral is that when we do allow an objective look at ourselves we tend to feel even worse.  Trying to become a better person, rather than experiencing and observing the person that we already are, robs us of understanding the moment we are in right now.

Rather than a client working alone in his or her vulnerability, Hoefer allows his own challenges and weaknesses to be a part of the dialog – supporting mutual reflection and open exploration.  “Every life is a phenomenon associated with influences and conditions that change of their own accord with awareness – I’ve never found anyone to blame for anything.”

The truthfulness that we share becomes more valuable than the issues we originally came together to resolve.  Every attribute we could wish for derives from truthfulness:  personal value, courage, identity, living in the moment … morality.  In sharing truthfully we not only gain relativity to our lives, but open the doors to ever expanding maturity.

What eventually manifests out of truthfulness with our self is our self, along with the relationships, occupations, and environments that support us.  This is given as freely and effortlessly as the confusion arising out of misdirection and distraction. 

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DL, call 303-333-7292.