“Let us embrace what
is true and discover the self together.”
DL Hoefer
Sharing Groups 
Sharing groups provide a crucible
for impartially observing the truth of our lives – how we create and perpetuate
our realities. Truthfulness with others
and myself expands to greater awareness.
If I manifest something by
asserting it, I will always feel a bit phony and I will never actually
experience what I am asserting. I cannot
try to be a certain way and experience it at the same time. I may act kind, but I will never experience
that I am kindness. I will never really
know if what I think kindness is, is truly kindness – and I will expend
continuous effort creating the impression of it.
When I let go of a bias I may
feel liberation – or I may feel I have given up some control – like letting go
of a rudder or hand hold on life. Yet seeing
what arises from within me when I am not actively controlling how I appear
tells me who I really am. Knowing who I
am gives relativity – even if I don’t like what I see I have a better sense of
how I came to be and the influences effecting my reactions.
I see awareness of these
principles to be the foundation for the only way of being that can preserve
life as we know it. I therefore support
the development of “Personal Worlds” in the form of sharing groups through
which we can open ourselves to explore the wisdom within. I have found that emotional problems cannot
exist in a personal world – neither for that matter can violence, ignorance, or
immaturity.